Tēnā koutou katoa nga mihi ki te whānau o Te Kura Takawaenga o Ōtātara
If you haven't had the 'teenage grunt' yet then count yourselves lucky! It is a thing, it happens and it is out there. The grunt? That can too often be the answer to simple questions like...'How was your day today?". The grunt or even, if you're really lucky, a reply along the lines of "good". This sort of response is more a sign of their age bracket and is not an indicator that there is a breakdown in that parent-child relationship. It is something that you have to bear with and it does sort itself out too!
Why can it be like this? The answer to that is that their brains are going through a massive rewiring which temporarily reduces their communication skills and increases their need for independence. More a normal part of our human development and lot less due to random moodiness. The brain area that handles logic and social communication is under heavy construction in those teenage years and it is this stage of their lives where they process emotions using the amygdala which adds to the exhaustion of verbal articulation. This is also a time when their circadian rhythms have had a wee bit of a shift and that sleep deprivation can often leave very little time for polite conversation.
This is also the time in their lives where they seek to be more independent, are forming greater identities with their peers and it is also the time when they are testing your boundaries. So, them giving you short answers provide a psychological boundary between their private lives and you. They are often saving their best communication energy for their friends and pushing boundaries? Thay do this because they know that your love is unconditional and safe to test!
All is not lost! How can you improve that communication in a way that doesn't create tension? Drop the interrogation questions and please do not bombard them with a list of questions - particularly if those are closed questions requiring a yes no answer. Wait until you can tell that they are ready to chat! Sometimes just sitting with them in a comfortable silence can help - they sometimes fill the silence! Use side by side talking, like when you are driving them somewhere, so they do not feel pressured by direct eye contact. A captive audience! Acknowledge any answer, even a grunt, with a statement such as "You must be tired, so let's chat later".
We may not be able to change them and how they respond at this age but we can change what we do and how we respond. And, if we want to take the positive slant on this, at least they are not ignoring us entirely.
Ngā mihi nui,
Marty Hantz
Tumuaki / Principal
Te Kura Takawaenga o Ōtātara Taradale Intermediate
As a Year 8, Harper has stepped into a leadership role in class showing maturity, responsibility, and an outstanding attitude. She is someone who always gives her best, sets high standards for herself, and leads by example every day. One of Harper's greatest strengths is the way she looks out for others. Whether it's offering encouragement, helping a classmate who is stuck, or simply being someone others can rely on, she is always willing to lend a hand without expecting anything in return.
What has been especially impressive this year is the incredible academic growth Harper has shown. Through determination, resilience, and a willingness to challenge herself, she has made fantastic progress and should be extremely proud of what she has achieved.
Harper, thank you for the positive influence you have on our class and the Kaweka team.
Whaia te iti kahurangi, ki te tūohu koe, me he maunga teitei
Rehan is the type of learner who always does the right thing, not because he is being watched, but because it is simply part of who he is. He consistently demonstrates integrity, kindness, and quiet determination, setting a wonderful example for those around him. In the classroom, Rehan is always focused on his learning, making the most of every opportunity and challenging himself to achieve his personal best.
Rehan's strengths extend beyond the classroom. He is a talented sportsman who approaches every challenge with commitment and sportsmanship, especially on the cricket field, where he truly shines. He is also a curious learner who confidently shares his ideas, asks thoughtful questions, and contributes positively to class discussions. It has been a pleasure to watch Rehan's confidence grow over the past 18 months, and I look forward to seeing all that he achieves during his final two terms at TIS.
Kāore te kumara e kōrero mō tōna ake reka. The kumara does not say how sweet she is.
Caleb is a quiet yet conscientious learner who consistently demonstrates a genuine commitment to his learning. He comes to school each day with a positive attitude and a readiness to engage, making the most of every learning opportunity.
Caleb approaches challenges with an open mindset and demonstrates several Habits of Mind in his everyday learning. He persists when faced with difficult tasks, drawing on a range of strategies to overcome obstacles rather than giving up. He thinks flexibly, recognising that there is often more than one way to solve a problem, and is willing to adapt his approach when needed. Caleb also strives for accuracy, taking pride in producing work of a consistently high standard and carefully managing his time to ensure tasks are completed thoughtfully and thoroughly.
As a responsible and dependable member of Room 15, Caleb takes great pride in fulfilling his role as the PE monitor. He carries out his responsibilities with commitment and reliability, setting a positive example for those around him. Caleb works respectfully and collaboratively with all members of Room 15 and the wider Takitimu team, showing kindness and consideration towards others. At the same time, he has developed strong independence, demonstrating confidence in managing his own learning and staying focused on achieving his goals.
Caleb's quiet determination, resilience and strong work ethic make him a valued member of our classroom. His willingness to persevere, remain organised and continually strive to do his best reflects the values and Habits of Mind we encourage at our kura. Caleb should be incredibly proud of all he has achieved in the first hald of this year. Congratulations on receiving the Whānaukura Award, Caleb—it is thoroughly deserved.
Honor upholds the school’s 3Cs daily; she consistently demonstrates a positive attitude towards her learning, setting high expectations for herself and striving for accuracy. Honor shows the ability to work interdependently, confidently takes lead roles within groups when required, and communicates her ideas with clarity while at the same time being an active listener. Honor is a well-respected member of our akomanga, who has strong, positive relationships with her peers. Since being at TIS, Honor has made the most of different opportunities the school has to offer—being part of the school production in 2025, currently playing as a member of both netball and water polo teams, and training hard in preparation for representing the school at the upcoming AIMS Games later this term. Honor, I look forward to seeing your continued success for the remainder of your time here at TIS.
Mā te kimi ka kite, mā te kite ka mōhio, mā te mōhio ka mārama.
Seek and discover, discover and know, know and become enlightened.
Learnership: Feedback for Growth
Helping our ākonga seek, understand, and use information to improve
This term we are beginning to focus more deliberately on feedback. This builds naturally from our work with the Habits of Mind, because feedback only helps when ākonga have the behaviours needed to listen, think, question, adjust, and try again with a better plan.
Feedback is sometimes thought of as something a teacher gives after work is finished. In Learnership, we want ākonga to understand feedback differently. Feedback is information for growth. It helps ākonga understand where they are now, where they are trying to get to, and what action will help them move forward.
The power of feedback is not in the comment itself. The power is in what ākonga do with it.
Ākonga may receive helpful feedback, but if they do not understand it, ignore it, feel judged by it, or make no change because of it, the feedback has not yet become learning. For feedback to make a difference, ākonga need to be active participants. They need to seek it, listen to it, make sense of it, and use it to improve their next attempt.
This is where the Habits of Mind matter. Using feedback well requires ākonga to practise:
Listening with understanding — hearing the message without immediately defending or dismissing it.
Managing impulsivity — pausing before rushing into a change.
Thinking flexibly — being open to a different strategy or approach.
Thinking about thinking — reflecting on the choices they made as a learner.
Questioning and posing problems — asking for clearer or more useful information.
Striving for accuracy — checking, refining, and improving the quality of their work.
Remaining open to continuous learning — seeing feedback as part of growth, not as criticism.
One of the shifts we are teaching ākonga is that feedback should not only arrive at the end. Skilful ākonga begin to anticipate feedback. They ask questions before, during, and after learning. Instead of waiting for the teacher to say, “This needs fixing,” they learn to ask, “What part should I improve?” or “What would make this clearer, stronger, or more accurate?”
This helps ākonga move from being passive receivers of feedback to active users of feedback. Over time, they become more capable of noticing quality, identifying gaps, and choosing their next step with greater independence.
At home, whānau can support this by treating feedback as useful information, not as judgement.
Instead of: “What mark did you get?”
Try: “What did the feedback help you understand?”
Instead of: “Did you get it right?”
Try: “What is one thing you can improve in your next attempt?”
Instead of: “That looks fine to me.”
Try: “What are you using to check the quality of your work?”
Instead of: “You should have listened more carefully.”
Try: “Which part of the feedback will change what you do next?”
Instead of: “Ask the teacher what to fix.”
Try: “What question could you ask that would help you improve?”
A helpful home conversation might sound like this:
Where are you trying to get to?
What information do you have about where you are now?
What is your next action?
Which Habit of Mind, or cluster of Habit of Mind, will help you use the feedback well?
Our goal is not simply for ākonga to receive more feedback. It is for them to become better at using feedback. We want ākonga who can seek advice, understand what it means, act on it, and reflect on whether their changes made a difference.
That is how feedback builds capability. Not by telling ākonga who they are, but by helping them see what they can strengthen next.
How learning gets done around here:
We seek feedback to help us grow.
We listen to understand, not just to respond.
We ask questions that make feedback clearer.
We turn feedback into action.
We use feedback to strengthen our next attempt.
Benji was invited over to train and fight in one of Thailands top fight gyms Sasiprapa Muaythai Gym . After a few days of training Benji fought at a gym in a big show in HuaHin which is about 3 hours out of Bangkok. Benji won all 3 rounds on a fight card which consisted of participants from seven different countries . A great experience as not many can go to Thailand and beat them at their own game .
A few days after the event Benji was named in a New Zealand Junior Muaythai team to compete at the World Champs in Greece in the U13 years, under 38kg class. Benji has been training 4-5 nights a week now for almost a year to try to accomplish this achievement.
What an outstanding achievement Benji - TIS is very proud of you and the mahi and determination that you have shown. Tino pai rawa atu, e hoa! Best of luck for Greece!
A huge thank you to the amazing sponsors who have so generously sponsored us for the upcoming AIMS games in Tauranga in September.
Our girls football team placed third last year at AIMS and we are keen to go back and play well!
We would not be able to attend this event without the generous support of the following sponsors.
A shout out to Keltech in Canada who have sponsored the team $1000 towards their campaign.
A huge thank you!
Our boys' Futsal team is also headed to the AIMS games. They have been generously sponsored by many local businesses. Without this support the team has receivied they would be unable to compete at this level.
Ngā mihi nui to all our sponsors.
Monday 3 - Friday 8 - Marae Visit
Friday 15 - PNINS Cultural Exchange
Monday 31 - Teacher only day - School Closed
With Term 3 well under way (and with the New Zealand Regional and National Secondary Schools competitions happening this month), now is a great time to remind everyone that Hawke's Bay does have its own fencing club and we welcome any prospective fencers keen to try out the sport, both now and throughout the year.
We train twice a week (Tuesday and Thursday 6pm to 8pm) at the Giants Boxing area in the Hastings Mitre10 Sports complex, just off the Hawke's Bay Expressway. We also run Saturday sessions for advanced, senior and competitive fencers and have a Musketeers program for Under 12s.
We will be taking a fleet of fencers to the regional and national competitions this month and hope that more will be joining us next year!
Please get in touch at hbfencingclub@gmail.com or check out our website: hbblades.com for more information.
- The coaching team at Hawke's Bay Blades